Comments on: When Mentors Fail Us

By: mcm

mcm — Fri, 11 May 2012 18:21:21 +0000

Hi, Ed – I just came across your post and wanted to thank you for sharing. Jodie was my first boss out of college (I was the second person ever to hold the position of Budget Coordinator). I’d like to be able to touch base with her. If the mailing address you have still holds, would you be willing to share it? Thanks very much.

By: edcabellon

edcabellon — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 07:58:34 +0000

Thanks for commenting Madeline, I'm glad you got something out of this post. I think Student Affairs needs to have more conversations about Ethics and how to handle situations like these, especially in our graduate programs.

Take care and best wishes.

By: Madeline Shoemaker

Madeline Shoemaker — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 04:30:08 +0000

Ed, this story is so similar to one that I just recently experienced prior to my entrance into the grad program at ASU.

Thank you so much for sharing – one of my mentors was convicted and admitted to embezzlement of our F/S organizations. This makes me feel less alone in some of the feelings I've been processing.

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By: alexandrasousa

alexandrasousa — Wed, 24 Feb 2010 05:56:36 +0000

That decision is very tough because I too know what it is like to be betrayed by someone and it's heartrending. In a way I feel that you should visit her just to get everything off your shoulders. You have the opportunity to release all your unanswered questions. You also don't want to go through life asking yourself “What would it have been like to visit her?” “Would all my worries finally subside?” The person who betrayed me suddenly disappeared and I have lost absolute contact with her and it bugs me every now and then because I was unable to release all my emotions. I feel that she still has no idea how much she affected me. Therefore, I feel that if you have the opportunity to clear your mind of this issue, you should go for it.